Category Archives: married

Bumps on the parallel highway

So the highway of life on this team is pretty much parallel to the highway I’ve been on my whole life.  Bumps, cracks, chasms even, exist along the way.  The only differences are the catalysts that cause them.  I’ll tell … Continue reading

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The same kind of different

Checking in…not much has changed. The legal process has ratcheted up a notch or two.  Not pretty.  I continually remind myself that (a) I started this nuclear reaction, (b) love and hate are really on the same side of the … Continue reading

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Alice Calls Again

“Would you tell me please which way I ought to go from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat. “I don’t much care where–” said Alice. “Then it doesn’t matter which … Continue reading

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Weekend Update

Parts of this update are as funny as Tina Fey and there are parts that make me sad to report.  Such is my world these days but I remain confident that things are going to be better and all four … Continue reading

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Bumps in the Road

Surprise, surprise…life was hard enough already, right?  Then I have to go nuclear and make it even harder.  Oh well, this is still the hand I’m playing and I still think I’m doing the right thing.  We’ll make it through … Continue reading

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Delta 1412, you are cleared for takeoff

Well, we did it.  Sold the albatross in spite of the continued downward spiral of the real estate market.  Of course we had to move on price but it’s gone.  And everytime I open MSNBC.com, I’m thankful that we’re coming … Continue reading

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Pack ’em up and head em’ out

Well…I thought the other shoe dropped a few months ago when all of the travel was added to the job description.  This one has a third foot and its shoe just dropped too.  I’ve been asked to relocate.  And it … Continue reading

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