Category Archives: gay

Bumps on the parallel highway

So the highway of life on this team is pretty much parallel to the highway I’ve been on my whole life.  Bumps, cracks, chasms even, exist along the way.  The only differences are the catalysts that cause them.  I’ll tell … Continue reading

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The same kind of different

Checking in…not much has changed. The legal process has ratcheted up a notch or two.  Not pretty.  I continually remind myself that (a) I started this nuclear reaction, (b) love and hate are really on the same side of the … Continue reading

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Alice Calls Again

“Would you tell me please which way I ought to go from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat. “I don’t much care where–” said Alice. “Then it doesn’t matter which … Continue reading

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Checking in

I’ve been pretty quiet recently.  And it’s not that nothing has been going on, it’s just I don’t think I’ve really had anything to say.  Like Richard in “My Trip Out”, I’ve been catching up on other bloggers and agree … Continue reading

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Weekend Update

Parts of this update are as funny as Tina Fey and there are parts that make me sad to report.  Such is my world these days but I remain confident that things are going to be better and all four … Continue reading

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Bumps in the Road

Surprise, surprise…life was hard enough already, right?  Then I have to go nuclear and make it even harder.  Oh well, this is still the hand I’m playing and I still think I’m doing the right thing.  We’ll make it through … Continue reading

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The Latest Update

I’ve made it to week two without a nervous breakdown.  Better living through chemistry.  Xanax during the day, Lunesta at night.  Little gay tic tacs.  But it’s really OK. As I’ve said, my new motto is “my life is in … Continue reading

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